Every Single Question You Need to Ask Your Caterer

We all know the big day is, well, kind of a big deal, and everything needs to be flawless. One of the major considerations of your reception is your food and drink choices. Whether you’re hoping for a full, sit-down dinner or a cocktail hour with passed apps, it needs to go off without a hitch, and finding an awesome wedding caterer is a key piece of that puzzle.

Hiring a wedding caterer can be pretty complicated, especially as you’re trying to figure out the budget, guest count, and menu. But the good news is that hiring the right wedding caterer will help you in figuring out all of these things.

Tips for Hiring a Wedding Caterer

Here, find our tips for hiring the right wedding caterer for you.

Booking early is important.

If your wedding venue doesn't have in-house caterers or a list of preferred vendors, start the search by narrowing down a list of caterers you absolutely love. Once you settle on a few options, strike while the iron is hot and set up appointments.

Search on social media.

When you start your search for a wedding caterer, look at Instagram for food inspiration or check with a restaurant you already frequent to see if they have a special events department. You can also ask your friends or even your wedding photographer or DJ if they have a suggestion from a previous wedding.

Consider the logistics.

According to Alexis Berry, General Manager for Tom Douglas Catering in Seattle, choosing a caterer in tandem with your venue can be a total game-changer. “Typically, couples will choose a venue, and then try to accommodate catering within that space,” she said. “Think about your vision, work backward, and consider logistics. Working on the venue and catering needs at the same time will help to eliminate compromises later on.”

Because the venue and the caterer are two main party components, choosing them at the same time and making sure each vendor communicates is crucial.

Establish your budget.

As you’re thinking through catering options, come up with a comfortable budget from the get-go. “It’s really important to know what kind of food you want, and a rough idea of your budget,” says Shawn Niles of Fat Pastor Productions. “For us, we work to craft a meal that is very specific to the wants and needs of our clients. We don’t have cookie-cutter menus, because we want our service to match the people we are serving. Without an idea of budget, we don’t know whether to craft a menu for sandwiches or lobster.”

Come to your appointments prepared.

Once you’ve figured out a budget and a few caterers you’re interested in, set up appointments for interviews, and see if you can do sampling at the same time. “Going into the first meeting with a clear idea of your vision, whether it’s laid back and fun or formal, definitely helps,” says Diana Ceballos of Rise & Shine Catering in L.A. “Walk us through what you want so we can see what can be done to meet you there.”

 

Questions to Ask Your Wedding Caterer

To be sure you’re heading into that first meeting prepared, we’ve rounded up a list of questions to consider as you’re finding the best wedding caterer for you!

Venue & Availability

  • Do you have our wedding date available?
  • Do you have any other obligations that day?
  • How will your staff balance multiple events that day (or weekend)?
  • Have you ever catered at our venue before?
  • Can you accomplish our vision at our venue?
  • What are your specific needs to be able to cater at our venue?
  • How much space will you need at the venue?
  • How much time will you need for set-up and clean-up at our venue?

Food & Drink

  • Do you have a static menu, or can you do a custom menu?
  • What are your most popular dishes?
  • Do you charge a bulk fee or cost per person?
  • What is the difference between a plated meal, buffet, family-style, etc.?
  • Can you make kid's meals?
  • Can you provide vendor meals?
  • Can you take care of various allergy/dietary requests?
  • Will food be made on-site or brought in?
  • When will you need final menu choices?
  • When will you need a final headcount?
  • Where do you source your food from?
  • Can/how will you handle last-minute requests?
  • What are the portion sizes?
  • What do you do with leftovers?
  • Do you make wedding cakes as well?
  • If not, will you provide cake cutting services?
  • Do you offer other desserts?
  • Can you provide bartending services?
  • If so, will we need to provide alcohol, or can you?
  • Are any non-alcoholic beverages included in the food costs?

Logistics & Details

  • How many weddings have you done in the past?
  • Do you have photos of past events and references from past clients?
  • Do you provide linens, table settings, and accessories?
  • What colors and style options do you have for linens, table settings, and accessories?
  • If you don’t provide linens, table settings, etc., will you handle coordinating the rental?
  • Will your staff handle setting place cards and menus, if desired?
  • What is your typical server to guest ratio?
  • Do you have the proper catering license requirements, as well as liability insurance?
  • Will we need any special event permits? Will you obtain those?
  • Will there be an onsite coordinator day-of? Can we meet them ahead of time?
  • Can you provide a copy of your standard contract?
  • What is the amount of the deposit due to hold our date, and when will the remainder be due?
  • What is your cancellation policy?
  • Do you offer a payment plan?

The 3 Most Effective Ways To Start the Event Planning Process!

1. Write out everything!

  • Take some time to deep dive into all the possibilities for your event and write them down. The details, the menu options, the color scheme, the headcount, the design and decor, what type of venue you're looking for, ideal date/time of year for the event, the budget - all of it!
  • Getting all of the possible options you're looking at onto paper is the perfect first step in planning your event. This brain dump of all the choices will get you started so you can cover all the bases.
  • This will also force you to think of the event start to finish! Turning your dream event into a reality starts here.

2. Organize your thoughts.

  • This step is a little tougher. This is where you really need to envision what you want from the event – how you want it to start all the way through the last song. Do you want a cocktail hour? Is it essential to have a dessert station? Is there dancing? Live band or D.J.? The details that you brain dumped in step #1 need to be organized here. This is where the game plan starts to take effect.
  • This is also where you start to nix the things you don't care too much about. Maybe you don't think it's necessary to have an ice sculpture and you would rather have a chocolate fountain. Or maybe you really think a taco station would be the perfect touch! Whatever your instincts are - go with them! This is where your event idea starts to become a real thing - filled with all the unique details and specifics you desire.
  • Making 3 lists, "Must-Have", "Maybe" and "Not For This Party", is a very helpful technique as you start to sort through these ideas.
  • Also, as you're sorting, it's important to think about the event as a whole. There are a lot of details that are appealing and exciting to envision, but sometimes all of them combined can be a bit overwhelming. Try to picture your event as a whole and what vibes you want to go for.

3. Bring it to life!

  • Now is when the action really begins! After you've written out all the "essentials" and "maybe's" - it's time to start figuring out your action steps.
  • Picking a venue and a date are crucial. A lot of the other details will fall into place once the date and venue are booked so that's a great place to start taking action.
    • Go on tours and gather all the information and if you have multiple venues in mind, figure out what really sets them apart and what vibes you got when you were there. Also be sure that the date availability aligns with what you want.
    • With the venue comes specifics such as menu decisions, type of bar, dessert options and floor plan. Different venues' packages will contain a variety of things included as well as additional enhancements so it's important to go into the venue search with what you're looking for clear in mind.
    • Do you want a photographer, videographer, D.J. or band? Maybe you're eyeing up a particular vendor you've encountered at another event? Finding out the vendors' availability is important before booking at the venue so you can make sure they're availability aligns. If you're flexible and open - then don't fret! It'll work itself out.
  • Once you have the date picked at the venue, the fun can really kick off! Make sure you're checking back in with your "Must-Have" and "Maybe" lists to iron out the rest of the aesthetic, decor, and more finite details. Referencing your lists will keep you in check and focused on the actual decisions that need to be made.

Who, What, When: Wedding Stationery Timeline & Guide

Invitations, Save The Date's, Thank You's, OH MY!

For as long as we can remember we've been executing the art of the invitation since we were able to walk, talk and drive our parents crazy. So when it comes to your big Wedding Day, invitations should be just as easy as inviting your friend over to watch the new episode of your favorite TV show- that's why I've created this simple timeline and guide so you know who to invite where and when!

Even though we are as technologically advanced as we are now in 2017 between smartphone capabilities and paper saving digital invites, a lot of planning must still be done at the right time so your guests can plan accordingly.

Here is when you should send what pretty little piece of paper to who:

1- Engagement Party Invitation

When To Party: 12 Months before the Wedding

When To Invite: One - Two Months before the Engagement Party

Who To Invite: Friends and Family (this is your super exclusive VIP list of close friends and family)

2- Save The Date

When To Invite: Nine - Twelve Months before the Wedding
Who: Everyone lucky enough to be invited to your Wedding

3- Order Invitations

When To Order: Six - Nine Months before the Wedding

4- Mail Invitations

When To Mail Out-Of-Town Invites: Eight Weeks before the Wedding
When To Mail Local Invites: Six Weeks before the Wedding
♥Insert Wedding of your Life Here♥

5- Mail Thank You Cards

When To Mail: Six - Eight Weeks after the Wedding

And now that you have a complete guide on whowhat and when to invite where- you should be able to conquer those invites with ease!


Picking Your Wedding Menu

When it comes to the food at your wedding it usually carries the same level of importance as Thanksgiving, you plan around it but usually forget to plan the details until the last minute. That’s why we’re here to help make picking out your menu easy!

The Price

The first thing is to make sure you know what is included with the price you settled on, and whats not. Typically you should be doing this before you decide on your venue to help make that decision, but Hey, this is your wedding after all!
Here we make it extremely simple for you by giving you a layout of each menu with simple explanations of how many options you have for each category (followed by each option, of course!). Also, don't forget to ask if there are any add-ons included with anything on the menu! For example, we offer a complimentary ice sculpture with every seafood display during cocktail hour! Who doesn't love taking a big king crab leg from a giant seashell- made entirely of ice?!

Getting The Good Stuff

Another major thing to remember is to check your potential venue's for any promotions! They could have cocktail hour stations or full Viennese Gala's that they're giving away for free, all just for booking during a certain month! Maybe they aren't giving anything away for free, but I guaratee you you will find some promotions with lower pricing per person on their packages.

Originality

When deciding between menus and venues, be sure to look for originality. Who wants to be eating the same thing their mother ate at their wedding 30 years ago? Not me! Be sure to ask questions about the Chef and what he's been cooking up in the kitchen. Plain mini hot dogs? No thank you. Mini hot dogs with sour kraut and mustard rolled into the ever-so-fluffy dough before wrapping it around that luscioustiny, cute hot dog? Yes please! (You can find this amazing creation here, of course!)

Who's in the Kitchen?

Lastly, make sure you test taste everything and anything you can! Tastings are a gift from the wedding gods that allow you to test everything about the venue from the food itself to the service. If you play your cards right you will even get to meet the Executive Chef where you can ask him any questions you have about the menu yourself! And don't forget that you can see the size of the portions, which is the most important part!
My own Father once went to a wedding at a very prestigious, well known venue in the Central NJ area that actually ran out of food at cocktail hour, and served more Dishes and Silverware than food during dinner. So make sure you test out those portions, and ask about the amount of food for your guests at cocktail hour. You wouldn't want any of your guests stopping at Burger King on the way home after all that money you spent!
And with that I leave you running off to tastings on the weekend, and doing research on menu options during the week at work.
Most importantly: Have Fun!

10 Wedding Planning Hacks to Save Tons of Time and Money!

We all know just how much Wedding Planning can put a damper on your Engagement Excitement, and honestly no one wants to see that!

With these easy 10 Wedding Planning Hacks, you'll find yourself with more time, more money, and less stress. And hey... who doesn't love more money to spend on the honeymoon!

Pre-Wedding Hacks

1. RSVP Invisible Ink

Track your RSVP's without your guests even knowing! Forget ruining your invitations and stationary with plain numbers to remember who's who- number or initial them with invisible ink for a modern and classy approach.

2. Utilize Groupon for Invites

You would be surprised by the gorgeous invites available on Groupon! Always be sure to check your for good deal's on custom Save the Date's, Invites, RSVP's and more.

3. Custom Floor Plans

When getting ready to arrange your seating arrangements, check with your Wedding Venue for a custom floor plan of your event. Here at The Imperia, we use special software to scale of every ballroom, so you'll know just how close your guests will be sitting next to each other!

4. Use Colored Tabs

Speaking of seating arrangements, use colored post-it tabs so you can visualize who's sitting next to who.

5. WeddingHappy App

With the WeddingHappy App you can do it all in one place- budget your Wedding, set up reminders, countdowns, and more!

Wedding Day Hacks

6. Bug Repellent Perfume

Having an outdoor ceremony or reception? Just taking engagement photos in some awesomely picturesque field? Keep the pesky bugs away, but keep your loved one close with this bug repellent perfume!

7. Solemates

Whether you're attending an Outdoor Wedding, or simply don't know what type of event you'll be attending, you can rely on Solemates to keep you upright and feeling confident!

8. Veil Weights

Use these stylish Veil Weights to keep that wandering veil in place. And why not try them out on some short Bridesmaid dresses too? The wind can't win this battle!

9. Secret Tissue Bouquet

Uh oh, unexpected happy tears trying to ruin your makeup? Hide some tissues in your Wedding Bouquet !

10. Wedding Card Album

Don't know what to do with all of those precious Wedding Cards? Just poke a hole in each one and string together with some ribbon for this cute album!

There you have it! You're an unofficial Wedding Planner Pro! With these Wedding Hacks you'll be ahead of the Wedding Planning Game.

Happy Wedding Planning!


10 Things to Consider When Choosing your Event Venue

When organizing an event, you're confronted with many decisions, but choosing the right venue and location is the one decision that will have the largest impact on your event. Everything from the date of the event, speaker lineups, catering options, and attendees experience depend on the event venue and location you select.

Does this sound a bit intimidating? You don't have to feel that way. Here are some guidelines about when to make decision, what to consider, and how to do better.

When to Start Looking for a Venue

The earlier the better. Once you have a good understanding of the following 3 factors, you can begin your search for a venue: budget, estimated event size, and space requirements.

Book a venue at least 8 months in advance so that you will have enough time to plan other critical things, such as securing great speakers, creating an event program and website, starting ticket sales, engaging with attendees, and more.

What to Consider When Searching for a Venue

1. Location

You've probably already considered this. For a local event, you may be looking for a venue within a reasonable distance from most attendees' homes or places of work. If many attendees will be traveling from out of town, a venue near the airport or their hotels will be beneficial. In whichever case, don't forget to consider traffic, transportation, and parking options.

If you want to reduce the chance for your attendees to be late, provide them with a mobile event app, which is essentially a standard these days. With maps, driving directions, and parking/shuttle information at their fingertips, your attendees will feel confident and assured heading into the event. If the venue is within a large campus or institute, utilizing maps with pinned locations can help a lot. For events with exhibitions, posters, or parallel sessions, interactive indoor maps will help attendees conveniently navigate.

2. Parking

Does the venue have a parking lot or valet parking? A venue with a parking lot is what dreams are made of. But if that's not the case, see if there are parking lots nearby that attendees can access and use. If there is no parking available, you're not completely out of luck -- you have a few alternatives:

  • Reserve nearby parking lots for your attendees and either include the cost in the ticket prices, or have attendees pay when they park.
  • Take a look at Uber and Lyft discounts offered for events. You can negotiate with them to set this up and distribute the promo code to your attendees.
  • Provide a way for attendees to share a ride or a cab with each other. It would also be a good chance for them to interact with each other. A conference app like Whova provides a Community Board and a group chat feature to help on this. Get more information here.
  • Offer valet parking for the event, even if the venue doesn't. Providing a valet may be essential if the event is an upscale event such as a gala.

3. Capacity and Minimums

  • What's the capacity? You'll need to know the room capacity of the venues for a few reasons. First, 500 people (if it is your estimated event size) can't comfortably fit into a room with a 250-person capacity. And second, there are fire and safety codes that the venue has to abide by.
  • What are the F&B Minimums? If your venue offers food and/or beverages and sets a minimum food and beverage spending amount (known as an F&B minimum), ensure that the past F&B records from the previous events are in line with the minimum. If you estimate much more F&B spending than what the venue requires, it means you would be a good customer to them. Negotiate whether they can provide complimentary service (e.g. upgrade Wi-Fi or A/V support) in return if your spending reaches a certain level.
  • How to make adjustment based on attendee feedback? It is important to be able to make an informed adjustment for a size of a room or F&B right before or during your event. You can easily headcount or collect instant feedback through live polling on an event app, which save you time and money. Here are 64 event survey questions in ready-to-use templates.

4. Contract Flexibility and Force Majeure

"Getting an official contract with the venue provider is a must, because having to change the event venue is probably the last thing you want to see," says the founder of SoftwareHow, who organized an industry conference with 300 attendees.

However, with the great uncertainty of the pandemic, it's a good idea to negotiate flexible contract terms with your venue, as your event might be postponed or canceled due to unforeseen factors. For example, a lockdown order or natural disaster might prevent people from attending your event even if they registered. If the venue includes a force majeure clause, you can check if they can add COVID-related clause that protects you from losing all of your deposit.

5. Services and Amenities

  • Does the venue have a kitchen and can it provide catering to your event? If so, often a venue will waive the facility fee and only charge a down payment along with the cost of food for each attendee. Venues without kitchen facilities may have a partnership with a food provider that you're required to use, so you may want to check their food in advance. Make sure to go with a venue that serves great food or allows you to bring in outside food vendors for the best attendee experience.
  • Does it have tables, chairs and linens you can use? If a venue has these items, you can save a great deal of money and effort by using what they have, assuming it matches your theme and ambiance.
  • Does it have a setup/clean up crew? If you've found a venue which provides a setup and clean up crew, rejoice! This isn't always the case. If these services aren't available you'll need to build your event team or find volunteers.
  • Does it have AV capabilities? Some venues have a built in audio-visual equipment for you to use, and others will require you to bring that in yourself.

6. Layout

Even though you'll be finding your venue early in the event planning process, you'll still want to have a rough idea of what types of activities you'll be including, the amenities you'll require, and the needs of your team and the attendees.

While narrowing down your selection, get an illustrated floor plan of each venue, and walk through your favorites at least once, making note of important things such as where the outlets are and where AV equipment is or can be located.

The layout and floor plan will greatly affect a few different aspects of your event:

  • Flow of traffic Think about the flow of traffic through your event. The kind of flow you'll want will be different for each event. What areas will be high traffic at the event? Registration? The auditorium doors? Keep this in mind when choosing your venue, realizing that how you setup the tables and decor will greatly affect this as well.
  • Event activities If you want to have keynote speakers at your event, you'll either need a stage, or a spot to place a rented stage. Will you need a demo area? Will there be a bar?

7. Insurance

According to BizBash, some venues won't even do business with you if you don't have insurance. Amy Hallquist-Hamric, president of Hallquist Insurance Agency agrees with BizBash. "There are several venues that require a certain amount of liability as well as them named as additional insured for the event," states Hallquist. "Typically you can ask your general liability insurance agent for this endorsement for your event. It is also a great idea to START EARLY in planning to have this added as well as to have all of the wording required, address, etc., prior to contacting your agent."

8. Ambiance and Accessibility

Pay special attention to the existing decor inside the venue. What style is the architecture and what does the building's interior convey? If you're holding a gala, you'll likely need different venue accommodations than you would for an expo. The less the ambiance matches the desired feeling of your event (upscale, high tech, etc.) the more decorating you'll need to do to make up for it.

 

Accessibility refers to the possibility that everyone, especially those with special needs, can access the building and its amenities. Before you can answer this question, you’ll need to understand who your attendees are and what their needs are.

You'll probably know whether there will be children at your venue, but you may not know if there will be individuals with other special needs. In this situation, reviewing recent events hosted by your organization may give you a sense of this.

9. Acoustics

Have you ever attended an event that was so loud, it was hard to hear others, causing you to strain your hearing and lose your voice, all in one night? That's often caused by a venue's poor acoustics, or how sound travels through the venue. A low ceiling will make the venue seem cozy, but it will make it louder if it's packed. Alternatively, a large warehouse-style venue will result in echoes, or what architects refer to as "reverberation".

Although acoustics won't necessarily make or break your choice in a venue, there are some ways you improve them, such as making use of patios outside the venue. In their article for the American Institute for Architects, Armstrong Ceilings suggests using acoustical clouds or canopies to improve a venue's acoustics.

10. Flexibility on Event Date

Being flexible on the event date can be a great way to negotiate with venues. They may have open dates on their calendar that they want to fill. By providing 2-3 date options, you are more likely to get discounted pricing.

How to Search for a Venue

Finding the right venue for your event can take up quite a bit of your time. Thankfully, there are a few shortcuts to help you save time:

  • Contact the area's local Convention & Visitors Bureau to inquire about venues that best suit your needs.
  • On event listing websites, such as 10times, eventful, etc., find similar local events to yours and see where they host events.
  • Use an online tool, such as PeerspaceUnique Venues, EventUp. They help you parse through the many venues to find the one right for you.

 

As you can see, there's a lot to consider when choosing your event's venue. However, if you take the above into consideration when doing your research, you'll find the perfect venue for your event.